Totally.

Totally

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I’m trying very hard not to say the word “totally” anymore. Why? Because I had a rare moment of clarity the other day and realized I sound like the movie Valley Girl. This movie is absolutely wonderfully awful. A classic. And though I may enjoy watching it, I would rather lose my voice permanently than sounds like any of the girls in this movie. Here are some examples of the things they say…

” Like, totally.”

“Totally to the max!”

“Gag me with a spoon. Totally.”

Notice a trend? It’s the word “totally”. And I have “totally” been saying “totally” way too often. I don’t know how it wormed it’s way into my speech like a language parasite but it definitely did. All of the sudden I am emphasizing everything I say with the word “totally”. It’s like my sentence doesn’t mean as much if I don’t have a “totally” in it. Terrible. Shameful. Ridiculous.

I realized this embarrassing fact about myself at work when I was in a meeting with a client. All of the sudden it hit me that I had just used the word “totally” 3 times in the same sentence. Gag. I couldn’t even believe what I was hearing myself say. The more I talked the more I realized I sounded like the world’s most ridiculous woman in the world. I was, like totally, humiliating myself to the max, ya’ll. Really.

It’s not that I have a problem with the word totally per se. I just think it is overused and abused in the the English language. I just don’t want to sound like a high school cheerleader because (shocker) I’m not a high school cheerleader. I’m a grown-up (ok I can hear you laughing from here…) I’m at least a somehow grown-up so I should try and speak like a somehow grown-up. Right? Actually, the more I think about it the more I realize I sound very little like a grown-up most of the time. Huh. I’m having another lightbulb moment……

Ok- new goal is not to eradicate “totally” from my speech all the time, just from my client meetings. Forget being a grown-up I want to be a high school cheerleader! (I really don’t want be a high school cheerleader)

You see how I changed my mind in the middle of this post? That’s why they call me contrary. And so it is.

11 thoughts on “Totally.

  1. well, not too bad, I have a friend who always say that, but in Portuguese (totalmente).

    i t sounds funny and not many people say it in Brazil.

    I love your blog

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  2. That was a totally rad article. Like, thanks for sharing.

    –Joe

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  3. Great post, but sadly my idea to work the word “totally” into my comment has become cliche. Darn it!
    -Josh

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    • No worries! I often find my best laid plans foiled by cliches. Thanks for reading!

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  4. Good luck with that, some phrases/words are so natural that it’s almost impossible for me not to say them. But i guess anything is possible.

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  5. I definitely have words that I overly rely on so I can definitely sympathize there haha
    Great post!

    - Calhoun

    http://selfproclaimedmegalomaniac.wordpress.com/

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  6. I agree with you. Totally.

    I feel the same way about “awesome” and “amazing.”

    Yet, the more I try to focus on not using them, the more I seem to use them. I think I may be contrary, too.

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  7. oh my gosh me too. at work everyone is older than me and they all say, “like totally, mary!” all the time and it makes me feel so stupid! ugh.

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  8. If it’s the way you speak, don’t go against the grain. We are always trying to stifle our voice, don’t stifle yours =)

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